Memorial Letter in honor of my father Karl H. Goodman, by Sherri Goodman Holstein
Karl H. Goodman, Attorney at law, our father, our Zaydie, hero to all;
I wrote those words as part of a longer poem, for a gala dinner, given by Chabad of Park Heights, in honor of my father. Who knew that only 5 months later, my dear father would suddenly pass away in the prime of his life?
My father had so many endearing qualities, he exuded confidence, he had movie star-looks, his skills as a lawyer are legendary, and his sense of humor could rival any professional comedian. A line from his court-room humor even made it into a movie that was being shot in Baltimore called, "And Justice For All." So the story goes, my father was representing a hardened criminal in a jury trial who was caught red handed stealing. At the end of the trial, which he obviously was losing, the Judge asked, "Goodman, is there anything good you can say about your client; After pausing for a moment, my father answered, "Yes your honor, he's an avid Colts fan." The court room erupted in laughter, and my father got his client reduced sentence.
He saw the true way of life; he lived truth, and was admired for it. When he walked into court, the Judge would stand and say, "Good morning Mr. Goodman. The guy in the black robe did not intimidate him, because, as my father would say, "a man who Davens in front of Gd(Hashem) every day," has nothing to fear.
He had a passion for life, and he infused joy into every situation. He could interact with people from all walks of life. He was truthful, and fair with people, and they loved him for it. I had so many people at the Shiva House tell me stories of how my dear father helped them out with legal advice, even though they were unable to pay.
Fundamental to the core, he loved Yiddish, he loved Shabbat, and he loved history, especially Jewish History. My father was a walking history book; he could recite the date of nearly every major historical event. But Israel and her history was his first love, he was so happy to learn of my plans to make Aliyah, saying he wished all his children lived in Israel.
He called all his friends "Bubby," and he endeared himself to everyone he met. He was a Corpsman in the Navy, a celebrated Lawyer, a devout Jew, father to 9 children, grandfather to 35, and he never wasted a minute of life. The impact of his life force will be missed by the countless many in court, and in the "Goodman Auditorium," at Shul. But I knew him best, I loved him best, I am the devout Jew, and mother of 4, who never wastes a minute of life because of him, and I hope I made him proud.
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